LETTER TO A FRIEND

Thank you for sharing such an honest and powerful reflection. It’s important to acknowledge that sexuality, like many aspects of life, can be fluid and personal, and it's okay for people to explore, experience, and change without feeling trapped by one decision or relationship. People grow, evolve, and discover new things about themselves over time—this is natural and part of the human experience. Experience truly is one of the best teachers, and sometimes you have to live through something to understand what works for you and what doesn’t.

What you’re saying is so important—choosing who you are and who you want to be should always be about personal truth, not about societal expectations or others' judgments. We all deserve to live authentically, and sometimes, as you pointed out, that means changing or evolving our identity as we learn and grow. There's no shame in admitting that something doesn’t fit you anymore, whether it’s a phase, a past decision, or a lifestyle that no longer serves you. It's about what feels right for you in the present and what aligns with your values, goals, and needs.

Your testimony about God’s deliverance is incredibly powerful. It’s a beautiful reminder that no matter where we’ve been or what we’ve struggled with—whether it’s substance abuse, gambling, or confusion about who we are—God has the power to bring change, healing, and restoration. You’ve experienced firsthand that God gives strength to withstand and overcome, and that’s something that can inspire anyone who feels stuck or lost. If God can give you the strength to overcome old habits and desires, He can help anyone who is seeking deliverance and transformation.

What you said about not letting people shame you for your testimony is so important. Our journeys are personal, and only we know the full story behind the choices we make. No one else should define who we are or tell us what we should or shouldn’t be. People change, and that's okay—we are allowed to evolve and redefine ourselves without fear of judgment or shame. Your courage to embrace your own path and share your testimony is a testament to the healing power of God and the importance of living your truth.

Thank you for being brave enough to share your experience. Your words are encouraging and remind us that we don’t have to be defined by past mistakes, relationships, or struggles. We are all works in progress, and God’s grace is sufficient for our changes. Stay strong in your journey and know that your transformation is a testimony to others seeking healing and direction.

May God continue to guide you and bless you with peace, strength, and clarity as you move forward in your life! 🙏